Just Updating the thread really as I find it quite beneficial in getting my thoughts down. Mum is telling everyone and anyone that she is fine now and that the dr has given her a clean bill of health. On a positive she remembers going to the drs but unfortunately her recollection of the visit is beyond skewed (Its her 3rd visit and she has latched onto the most recent one which she booked in fury after the opg letter incident) but was accompanied by trusted neighbour. Dr was clear with her that she has an issue and memory clinic will diagnose this for her but she feels that he said she is better definitely not suffering from any memory issues and would not let anything happen to her. It's hard biting tongue or just simply agreeing but that is what I have been doing and she has been fine with me, however have just found out she has commandeered another neighbour to try and cancel the Lpa applications ( They didnt as they could see she was completely out of sorts) so leaving her unattended with this altered reality is putting her in danger of the opposite of what she is trying to achieve in her specific wishes being carried out. I am also finding that the anecdotes that are repeated each time are taking longer and being carried out back to back, for example the other day after spending time with her and the kids she repeated every story again sat in the car outside of her house for at least an hour and a half as I was dropping her home. Keeping her calm and being calm lead to a more peaceful existence but she is also in denial, I know memory clinic have booked an appointment (As I did it over the phone) and written to her but she has seemingly lost/hidden the letter which I know a diagnosis wrong necessarily be remembered by her but will open up support opportunities and even financial ones to best help her. She moaned to me that trusted neighbour 1 was trying to coerce her into suffering from AD but this limbo bit is very hard and has made me I'll! Rant/update over