Again a small thing is driving me mad. After the usual day of repeated questions and wanting something to eat (forgetting he's already eaten a meal just 10mins ago ) OH had decided to go to bed early leaving me in peace to watch TV. But in 20 mins. He has checked that the front door. Balcony door and windows are locked 6times. I couldn't help raising my voice and telling him to go to bed for goodness sake. I dread the hrs 9pm -10pm. I suppose this is the sun downing so many of you mention in your posts. It's been going on for months. I suppose I have to get used to it-but it's not easy. I so admire all the carers who are coping with far worse experiences . I feel better already after writing this. Thanks to you all on TP.for being there.