Thank you MaNaAk. It really helps to write about things with those who know what you are going through. I think Mummy had mermantine too, she was on so many things it was hard to keep track. I hope that I made her proud, I was lucky to be able to spend time with her with others doing the heavy lifting of caringDear @Helly68,
I am so sorry to hear this. I know exactly what you are going through and please keep posting. You have been there for me and I want to be there for you. Dad was also in a home and he ended up being put on memantine when he became aggressive. His passing was sudden and I didn't realise the staff and residents at the home would miss him. The same will go for your mum but remember this she would have been very proud of you and what you did for her.
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MaNaAk
Thank you MaNaAk. It really helps to write about things with those who know what you are going through. I think Mummy had mermantine too, she was on so many things it was hard to keep track. I hope that I made her proud, I was lucky to be able to spend time with her with others doing the heavy lifting of caring
Thank you @LadyA . we do what we can, but somehow it never seems enough.