Hi Sterling, how it is going with SS - can you please explain why you think 24/7 is best and why SS think it isn't? My situation is probably not quite as advanced but I get the impression the hospital want to put a good spin on things and send Mum home. I won't go on as I am now convinced we are all trotting down a path full of potholes and puddles.... learning how to deal with them (or better still, circumnavigate), seems to be the best option.
My mum has very strong delusions and acts on them. She has no idea that they are not true. Living at home on her own they have become worse and worse. Life is very anxious and stressful because of them to the point of wishing to commit suicide. I cannot care for her for many, many, reasons but especially because she doesn't treat me like I am adult. She only wants me there as a safety backup as long as I agree with her and tow the line. If I don't or I question what she is saying then she gets angry and cuts me off. I don't feel adequately trained to deal with her moods and poorliness.