On Wednesday I got a phone call from the memory clinic offering me/us an appointment due to a cancelation, we've been waiting 4 months so I took it, and at 10.30 this morning me and my mum were sitting in the memory clinic waiting to be called in, once we were called, we ended up in a doctors office with a very nice understanding and patient Doctor and about 35 minutes later we got a diagnosis, with no need for a brain scan, the doctor said it was pretty obvious! He's diagnosed my mother with altzimers dementia - moderate level, and has put her on T.Donepezil 5mg for 28 days initially then 10mg for 56 days, he was honest tho and said that it works in only 60% of people and comes with many side effects including sickness and hallucinations, but we'll give it a go and try it, he also said its more than likely that she won't be able to live on her own for much longer and it's likely she'll be in a care home by the end of this year.
To be honest I don't know whether I'm happy or sad, don't get me wrong I am glad she's now diagnosed because now they the authorities might start taking me seriously and put a proper care package in place, instead on blaming everything onto a urine infection which winds me up no end...
I've got to look after myself now too, as I went to the doctor the other day because I couldn't stop crying, and apparently I've had a mini episode break, and it's left me with slurring speech and a shaking twitching right hand which is uncontrollable and comes and goes. I'm ok, I haven't lost it yet or thrown myself out of a window, but the SW has told me to back off and leave control to them, and stay away for 2 to 3 weeks, but the thing is, who's going to take her to memory clinics and hospital visits and sort out the council tax and housing allowance, they or the carers can't do that, so it's left down to me, so overwhelmed or not, what can one do, you know.
Life goes on!
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To be honest I don't know whether I'm happy or sad, don't get me wrong I am glad she's now diagnosed because now they the authorities might start taking me seriously and put a proper care package in place, instead on blaming everything onto a urine infection which winds me up no end...
I've got to look after myself now too, as I went to the doctor the other day because I couldn't stop crying, and apparently I've had a mini episode break, and it's left me with slurring speech and a shaking twitching right hand which is uncontrollable and comes and goes. I'm ok, I haven't lost it yet or thrown myself out of a window, but the SW has told me to back off and leave control to them, and stay away for 2 to 3 weeks, but the thing is, who's going to take her to memory clinics and hospital visits and sort out the council tax and housing allowance, they or the carers can't do that, so it's left down to me, so overwhelmed or not, what can one do, you know.
Life goes on!
Vx