Today I have been talking to a friend who has been going through agonies regarding her father in law Harry. He went to his new home yesterday and she is willing to share the following with you.
Some of the places we looked at had an 'odour', ahem, about them! They got a 2 minute visit, somehow when we visited the one we chose; it had a friendly feel to it. PLUS when we called back for a second look- unannounced- the 'patients' had just finished Sunday lunch. They were all having a glass of wine or beer; afterwards apart from one old boy, who kept telling me he was 93, he was partaking of a drop of brandy and lemonade! By popular demand, they have fish and chips x 28 times, delivered from the local chip shop on a Friday!.. They are allowed to smoke in a separate lounge if they want to.... one of the homes we visited made them go into the car park can you believe that... £294 a week, and they have to go in the car park !!!!
Things are still looking good this morning. Hubby sneaked over to the home, to drop some bits in for father in law, he said he felt like a burglar, sneaking in so his father did not see him. We are not visiting till Friday- then hopefully he will be settled properly by then, and we will not confuse him. The manager said Harry has been fine- he keeps saying ' this is a lovely boarding house'
We both hope her observations have been of some help to you all.
Linda
Some of the places we looked at had an 'odour', ahem, about them! They got a 2 minute visit, somehow when we visited the one we chose; it had a friendly feel to it. PLUS when we called back for a second look- unannounced- the 'patients' had just finished Sunday lunch. They were all having a glass of wine or beer; afterwards apart from one old boy, who kept telling me he was 93, he was partaking of a drop of brandy and lemonade! By popular demand, they have fish and chips x 28 times, delivered from the local chip shop on a Friday!.. They are allowed to smoke in a separate lounge if they want to.... one of the homes we visited made them go into the car park can you believe that... £294 a week, and they have to go in the car park !!!!
Things are still looking good this morning. Hubby sneaked over to the home, to drop some bits in for father in law, he said he felt like a burglar, sneaking in so his father did not see him. We are not visiting till Friday- then hopefully he will be settled properly by then, and we will not confuse him. The manager said Harry has been fine- he keeps saying ' this is a lovely boarding house'
We both hope her observations have been of some help to you all.
Linda