I've posted once before asking for advice for my Dad who we suspect has vascular dementia. He'd had various blood tests and scans and we were waiting on an appointment with the memory clinic, In the meantime, after advice from some forum members here I contacted Adult Services and had lined up a 6 week assessment/package of support if he agreed to it.
But he got covid, then had a fall and has now been in hospital for a month. He seems to have deteriorated massively while he's been in there - possibly as he wasn't allowed visitors for the first few weeks. The staff say he is very confused and has delirium, he asks for help and doesn't know why, sleeps most of the time. He's had to have blood transfusions, dialysis and physio. A few days ago, the hospital contacted my brother who is on the paperwork as next of kin and asked if he had POA - when he said yes, they arranged a meeting with my brother to discuss next steps. Unfortunately I'm hundreds of miles away but my brother is really keen I lead the questions so I'm going to be on video call. I just really want to make sure I ask the right things though - this is all still quite new to us and I'm sure there are things I won't think of so if anyone can suggest questions they would want to ask, or have asked in similar situations that would be really helpful.
Since then they've also asked my brother's permission to use a feeding tube on Dad as he isn't eating enough. So I was going to ask about that and how long it will be for, whether he's showing any signs of improvement yet etc. And also whether the delirium will improve and he will regain cognitive function. What else should I be asking though? Thanks!
But he got covid, then had a fall and has now been in hospital for a month. He seems to have deteriorated massively while he's been in there - possibly as he wasn't allowed visitors for the first few weeks. The staff say he is very confused and has delirium, he asks for help and doesn't know why, sleeps most of the time. He's had to have blood transfusions, dialysis and physio. A few days ago, the hospital contacted my brother who is on the paperwork as next of kin and asked if he had POA - when he said yes, they arranged a meeting with my brother to discuss next steps. Unfortunately I'm hundreds of miles away but my brother is really keen I lead the questions so I'm going to be on video call. I just really want to make sure I ask the right things though - this is all still quite new to us and I'm sure there are things I won't think of so if anyone can suggest questions they would want to ask, or have asked in similar situations that would be really helpful.
Since then they've also asked my brother's permission to use a feeding tube on Dad as he isn't eating enough. So I was going to ask about that and how long it will be for, whether he's showing any signs of improvement yet etc. And also whether the delirium will improve and he will regain cognitive function. What else should I be asking though? Thanks!