Our older sister has pushed us out of mums care at home. Mum was placed in nursing home approximately five years ago behind our back by elder sister. When we discovered due to family conflict social services took over an mum remained in nursing home. Since lockdown mum ended up In hospital with chest infection but has recovered after having feeding tube put in place. My sister contacted me saying drs were going to remove tube an pretty much send mum to end of life palliative care. As no one has been able to visit I was not convinced she was at this stage as I had seen her 2weeks prior to her hospital admission. I informed elder sister that mum will not go to palliative care but come home to me to die with her family around. Anyway as I live 2nd floor flat it was not possible to facilitate this so after much difficulty we were convinced by elder sister and her daughters that mum will go to her even though initially she was happy for her to be sent back to care home. Since then I’ve saw mum twice the second time she was extremely dehydrated when I was giving her water with a syringe and because I asked too many questions they have caused real problems making it difficult even potentially dangerous for me to go an see mum. I believe they are not providing adequate care they are refusing to have domicillarys attend despite informing me mum is in pain when she is being washed. With the right loving care my mum could potentially get stronger and still live comfortably for some time but I don’t believe my sister wants this. I regret agreeing to let mum go there as we could have taken mum to our other sister who was pushed out even before me as I am much more resilient. They the ones claiming to be caring care only about mum’s finances and I’m at a loss and extremely distressed not knowing what to do. Can anyone please help. Mum has no new medical issues merely according to the hospital her dementia advanced