Our cruise is going well but it is cruelly exposing his memory loss which seems significantly worse when compared to a few weeks ago, unless I need to look back at earlier posts to remind myself. Being in a new place does mean that his poor brain is having to process new stuff all the time and it goes wrong. On the plus side he is loving the wonderful views and new things to look at, does get exhausted but probably not a lot more than at home, feels very comfortable in his accommodation and is eating much better, having said that he is not hungry. The main downside, as my TP friends will guess, is his obsession, and it is that now, with ‘having a drink’, even though he had non alcoholic beer last night and thought he felt quite tipsy! He is starting to get quite cross when I say no now, but if I can get him through to 7-8, he subsides. It is no better at home so I just have to put up with it. I made the right decision about excursions keeping them short and easy. I got chatting with a lady last night who is with a friend because her husband died last year, having had a precipitate decline with Alzheimer’s. We had quite a chat and she was most sympathetic because ‘she knew’, as those of us with PWD do. So it has proved a good choice of holiday so far, within its limitations. He is no longer my husband as I knew him, which the requirements of holidaying have exposed to make my heart bleed at times. I needed to write all this to get it out of my system and I know that my compassionate communication would be nil without TP, and boy do I need it now.