Another option: Deed of Variation
When my mum died, I was sole beneficiary of what was left, so I made a Deed of Variation which enabled me to pass a portion of the money straight on to my two children.
This seemed a far better option that them waiting to inherit upon my death, as they have been able to use it to fund improvements to their first homes, at a time in their lives when money is particularly tight.
However, I did write them a letter first, explaining my intentions and saying how disappointed I would be if they frittered Grandma and Grandad's money away and if that was likely to be the case, then I would expect them to refuse it. Of course, they understood that perfectly and have even checked with me in the interim that I am happy about what they are spending it on.
I know Mum and Dad would have approved of this and my children appreciate how fortunate they have been.
When my mum died, I was sole beneficiary of what was left, so I made a Deed of Variation which enabled me to pass a portion of the money straight on to my two children.
This seemed a far better option that them waiting to inherit upon my death, as they have been able to use it to fund improvements to their first homes, at a time in their lives when money is particularly tight.
However, I did write them a letter first, explaining my intentions and saying how disappointed I would be if they frittered Grandma and Grandad's money away and if that was likely to be the case, then I would expect them to refuse it. Of course, they understood that perfectly and have even checked with me in the interim that I am happy about what they are spending it on.
I know Mum and Dad would have approved of this and my children appreciate how fortunate they have been.