Hello everyone,
Wednesday dad had another fall at home, he has steadily become weaker since mum's admission to the care home became permanent. Over the last few weeks he has been clearing out mums things from the house, letters, things mum had hoarded, we believe this has exhausted him and he fell. Once in hospital it has been found his calcium levels are very high again an indicator his cancers are progressing, we have been told to expect the worse case tomorrow about his condition. Now some honest advice is needed, for some reason mum has been asking for him as she said he said she must go to the hospital, this gave me goose bumps, do we take her, after 70 years of marriage do we let them both hold hands once more, we all know there will be a terrible time ahead for dad, and also for mum.
This is a difficult decision to make, has anyone else gone through this senario?
Thank you for all your support in advance.
Wednesday dad had another fall at home, he has steadily become weaker since mum's admission to the care home became permanent. Over the last few weeks he has been clearing out mums things from the house, letters, things mum had hoarded, we believe this has exhausted him and he fell. Once in hospital it has been found his calcium levels are very high again an indicator his cancers are progressing, we have been told to expect the worse case tomorrow about his condition. Now some honest advice is needed, for some reason mum has been asking for him as she said he said she must go to the hospital, this gave me goose bumps, do we take her, after 70 years of marriage do we let them both hold hands once more, we all know there will be a terrible time ahead for dad, and also for mum.
This is a difficult decision to make, has anyone else gone through this senario?
Thank you for all your support in advance.