for the last few years I have seen my mum go through some very odd changes and I'm pretty sure it's dementia. She is 69 and her personality has completely changed.. She has no empathy for people and comes across really cold and rude..She no longer completes housework, she sleeps in an unmade bed most of the time and her bedroom is filthy, she washes up with cold water, no washing up liquid and using her hands which leaves food all on the plate so they always need re-washing..everyday is pretty much the same for her, she will get up about 5.30am, insist on going to the shops at around 7am and throughout the day she will go to the shop about 5 times, its like she gets the idea in her head and she has to go..she will then have a bath around 4pm and go to bed at 6pm.. She repeats herself constantly and only talks about a handful of things, she forgets words and sometimes what shes talking about mid conversation, She also almost chants to herself so will say things over and over like "I'm going out now, I'm going out now, I'm going out now". She is very vague also and will sometimes just stare in to space during a conversation, almost like she doesn't know how to answer. She is obessed with shopping and comes home with a new top every couple of days, she also has a crazy obsession with sweet foods when she used to be very healthy and hardly touch sweets.. She is obsessed with cornetto ice creams and also the drink schloer.. she had to rush out today because she only had 2 bottles left.
She forgets to take her bag out with her a lot of the time, occasionally locked herself out the house, she struggles with the sequencing of cooking now and will get flustered while cooking a roast, she also has awful table manners and will just pick food up with her hands and eat before anyone else has sat down.
My dad is 75 and is very fit and healthy and is doing an amazing job but she is driving him mad. I'm 32 and have 2 brothers aged 35 and 38 and we try and visit to help out as much as we can, especially with the housework but she is driving us all a bit bonkers and we are starting to get short tempered with her, which I feel terrible about but it is really draining.
She went for a memory test at the GP and got 30/30 a few months back so came home saying there is nothing wrong with her and she is fine. the strange thing is, her memory is actually pretty good and unless you have known her in the past you would probably just think that she was a bit vague and ditsy.
I sat her down yesterday and I explained my concerns and she said she would go to the GP again with me but she isn't happy about it and thinks im bullying her.
Sorry for the very jumbled post.. I'm just wondering if anyone else has seen these changes in a loved one and have they been diagnosed? I really don't know what further tests they will be able to do, do you think they would give her an MRI?
Ellie x
She forgets to take her bag out with her a lot of the time, occasionally locked herself out the house, she struggles with the sequencing of cooking now and will get flustered while cooking a roast, she also has awful table manners and will just pick food up with her hands and eat before anyone else has sat down.
My dad is 75 and is very fit and healthy and is doing an amazing job but she is driving him mad. I'm 32 and have 2 brothers aged 35 and 38 and we try and visit to help out as much as we can, especially with the housework but she is driving us all a bit bonkers and we are starting to get short tempered with her, which I feel terrible about but it is really draining.
She went for a memory test at the GP and got 30/30 a few months back so came home saying there is nothing wrong with her and she is fine. the strange thing is, her memory is actually pretty good and unless you have known her in the past you would probably just think that she was a bit vague and ditsy.
I sat her down yesterday and I explained my concerns and she said she would go to the GP again with me but she isn't happy about it and thinks im bullying her.
Sorry for the very jumbled post.. I'm just wondering if anyone else has seen these changes in a loved one and have they been diagnosed? I really don't know what further tests they will be able to do, do you think they would give her an MRI?
Ellie x