i have been told by the nursing home that because I don’t have lasting POA health and welfare I am not allowed by law to see his care plan. I feel heartbroken that I, his wife, who vowed 40 years ago to love and cherish him in sickness and health am now so powerless that I can’t even see his care plan. I do trust that he will be looked after according to a proper plan but it feels so hard to be so shut out by the law. Has anyone else had this? 10 years ago we thought we were being sensible and took out enduringPOA s but now they are not valid for this.