Hi all
Just needed to send a quick line. Mum was recently diagnosed with dementia and is due to go to hospital with the hope of being put onto drugs in February. Just last wk i took her for her tests at the doctors surgery,and whilst we were in the waiting room we got talking to a man who announced to us that his wife had alzheimers . I almost freaked as mum had said to dad that those tablets she was going to have were for people with AZ. She did not say much and was very lovely to this gentleman but i know it must have affected her. Since then she has become very sad and depressed. She doesnt get out of bed during the day and dad is finding it hard to know what to do for the best. I am trying to keep her spirits up and encourage her to tell me of any concerns. I have tried to reassure her but to no avail. Does anyone have experience of this and can we expect her to come out of it in her own time. She isnt eating much either and she said to me today that she feels she has no go and is very frustrated that she cannot do the things she used to. My brother said she looked in the mirror at herself this morning and she was so sad. I couldnt help but have a good old cry.(obviously something we all avoid around mum)
If anyone has any ideas or experience they could pass on to me I would be extremely grateful.
Many thanks
Maude
Just needed to send a quick line. Mum was recently diagnosed with dementia and is due to go to hospital with the hope of being put onto drugs in February. Just last wk i took her for her tests at the doctors surgery,and whilst we were in the waiting room we got talking to a man who announced to us that his wife had alzheimers . I almost freaked as mum had said to dad that those tablets she was going to have were for people with AZ. She did not say much and was very lovely to this gentleman but i know it must have affected her. Since then she has become very sad and depressed. She doesnt get out of bed during the day and dad is finding it hard to know what to do for the best. I am trying to keep her spirits up and encourage her to tell me of any concerns. I have tried to reassure her but to no avail. Does anyone have experience of this and can we expect her to come out of it in her own time. She isnt eating much either and she said to me today that she feels she has no go and is very frustrated that she cannot do the things she used to. My brother said she looked in the mirror at herself this morning and she was so sad. I couldnt help but have a good old cry.(obviously something we all avoid around mum)
If anyone has any ideas or experience they could pass on to me I would be extremely grateful.
Many thanks
Maude