Hi Everyone,
I always seem to log on when I confront a problem with my mam, hope you don't mind me sharing it. My mam is in the later stages of AD, she was diagnosed at 60yrs young and is now 68. When I went to visit Sunday, she is in long term care in a Hospital, she looked dreadful, I knew something was wrong because she was in bed, normally my mam is up in the chair most days, even though she is at the stage where she doe's not move at all, the only thing arwful thing she is able to do, involuntary most probably is push her hands into her throat , which causes her to cough a lot. I have spoken to the nurses and they say they have never come across this before, has anybody?
But the reason she was in bed was because the staff there were concerned because she had been pale for a few days and had vomited a few times. Could anyone tell me if the ability to swallow dissapears altogether, because it seems to be that mam is having trouble swallowing food, the nurse I spoke to said it could be that the food was bland and did not stimulate the taste senses, I'm not sure about that. Normally I can hold it together until I get home but I had to swallow back the tears a few times that day, seeing my mam suffering so. I worked yesterday, got little sleep, as you could imagine, i was just waiting for the phone to ring to say mam had passed away in her sleep, but when I rung the ward yesterday morning , they had got mam up from bed given her a bath & she had managed to eat some breakfast ! I'm off to see her tomorrow to see how she is, but how long can one person keep surviving on such small amounts of food & fluids? Thanks for listening, Rosie x
I always seem to log on when I confront a problem with my mam, hope you don't mind me sharing it. My mam is in the later stages of AD, she was diagnosed at 60yrs young and is now 68. When I went to visit Sunday, she is in long term care in a Hospital, she looked dreadful, I knew something was wrong because she was in bed, normally my mam is up in the chair most days, even though she is at the stage where she doe's not move at all, the only thing arwful thing she is able to do, involuntary most probably is push her hands into her throat , which causes her to cough a lot. I have spoken to the nurses and they say they have never come across this before, has anybody?
But the reason she was in bed was because the staff there were concerned because she had been pale for a few days and had vomited a few times. Could anyone tell me if the ability to swallow dissapears altogether, because it seems to be that mam is having trouble swallowing food, the nurse I spoke to said it could be that the food was bland and did not stimulate the taste senses, I'm not sure about that. Normally I can hold it together until I get home but I had to swallow back the tears a few times that day, seeing my mam suffering so. I worked yesterday, got little sleep, as you could imagine, i was just waiting for the phone to ring to say mam had passed away in her sleep, but when I rung the ward yesterday morning , they had got mam up from bed given her a bath & she had managed to eat some breakfast ! I'm off to see her tomorrow to see how she is, but how long can one person keep surviving on such small amounts of food & fluids? Thanks for listening, Rosie x