I am so in need of help!!!!!!!!! Is anyone able to help me with this problem. My father put mum into a home for some respite care and although it is awful my father realised he could not cope and had the care extended for another 3 weeks. My father was told even two weeks ago that she could stay there as they all loved her. During mums 5 weeks there she went missing, fell twice and smashed her face very badly. She has lost 1 stone in weight. Tonight my father was distraught. The home rang him and told him that she can no longer stay there because she walks about all the time, kisses people and sings My my my delihla all the time and the other residemnts don't like it. She was not like this before she went in. She shares a room and keeps the other lady awake most of the night. Where do we go from here because all the homes are private and I feel so hopeless. There must be somewhere that will look after her. She has worked all her life and given so much to others. I am not coping, I am the main bread winner in my family and can not even go part time at work even though I would love to, and worst of all I am hating my dad for not coping too. Help! Please!!!!