Hello,
My step-grandma married my grandad way before I was born. She has always been in my life and we have always been close. My grandad died in 2009 and at the time my grandma was starting with Alzheimer's. She lived in sheltered accommodation but we visited often. It was at the time of my Grandad reaching his later stages of illness that my grandma's son, who I had never seen and never visited, became present after learning they had a considerable amount of savings.
Shortly after my grandad's passing my grandma was moved from her house. We had no contact details for her son, no idea where he lived and no idea where he moved her to. In fact, we only knew she had been taken when we went down one day to find the house empty and her and my grandad's belongings left outside.
Fast forward 10 years and after many years of searching I've finally found my grandma. Since this I've been visiting her in the care home she resides in. I do not want anything from her, only to see her. She does not ever become upset or agitated when I'm present but her son has now told the home I'm not allowed to visit.
I can only presume he has POA over both finances and welfare but surely, unless he has stipulated a safeguarding issue, then he can't stop me?
I hope this makes sense. I was heartbroken leaving her there yesterday. I have no way of contacting him and all I want to do is see her.
Thank you to anyone who takes the time to read and support.
My step-grandma married my grandad way before I was born. She has always been in my life and we have always been close. My grandad died in 2009 and at the time my grandma was starting with Alzheimer's. She lived in sheltered accommodation but we visited often. It was at the time of my Grandad reaching his later stages of illness that my grandma's son, who I had never seen and never visited, became present after learning they had a considerable amount of savings.
Shortly after my grandad's passing my grandma was moved from her house. We had no contact details for her son, no idea where he lived and no idea where he moved her to. In fact, we only knew she had been taken when we went down one day to find the house empty and her and my grandad's belongings left outside.
Fast forward 10 years and after many years of searching I've finally found my grandma. Since this I've been visiting her in the care home she resides in. I do not want anything from her, only to see her. She does not ever become upset or agitated when I'm present but her son has now told the home I'm not allowed to visit.
I can only presume he has POA over both finances and welfare but surely, unless he has stipulated a safeguarding issue, then he can't stop me?
I hope this makes sense. I was heartbroken leaving her there yesterday. I have no way of contacting him and all I want to do is see her.
Thank you to anyone who takes the time to read and support.