please give me an anser...thanks,,,

Grannie G

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Dear miss cool

Please keep posting miss cool.

You have no alternative but to live with your illness, but if posting on TP can help in the smallest way, by making you feel even the slightest bit less alone, I know there are many here who will welcome you with open arms.

Love xx
 

florence43

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Dear Miss Cool,

I often wonder how much this forum helps you, and others who are sufferers, rather than carers. I can't begin to tell you how much you have helped me, personally, and maybe that, in itself, is something you get from TP....the knowledge that you have helped so many people, that you are not wasting your life and your mind, and that it is still, despite illness, serving a great purpose and imparting great insight.

I worry that because the majority of members are carers, and we moan, we describe in great detail, we talk from the other side to you, you might resent much of what is said. I know that you have been a carer, so your knowledge of both sides is such a valuable tool for a forum like this.

But, when it all boils down...I wish we could help you more. Instead, we can thank you, but I hope that's enough.

For as long as you can, please keep posting. I know I will always talk about Miss Cool...even in years to come when I look back in time to my mum's illness and talk to others about what we all went through. I will refer to this wonderful woman on a forum who taught me more than I could have imagined possible. You're a legend, and your name will be said in my family discussions for years and years to come.

Anything you ever need, we're always here for you.

Lots of love,
 

piedwarbler

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Annie has said what I would have like to have said but with more style and panache. I agree with every word of her post.

xxx Miss Cool, the leg xxx (as in short for legend)
 

miss cool

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Hi Sarah, thank you , i think we have a lot in commen both arty in many ways.


HI Sylvia , Thank you again for your kind words , i will do my best on TP for as long as i can.


HI Annie as allways your words can bring me to tears you are such a lovely person .


Hi piedworbler thank you for bigin me up my head will swell.



remember keep keeping on thats all we can all do.




love miss cool.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
 

Helen33

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Jul 20, 2008
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Dear Miss Cool,

I just like you - full stop:)

I think we are all lonely in one way or another and Talking Point helps us feel connected and valued and that is a wonderful thing indeed.

Love and a (HUG) to you
 

florence43

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Oh Miss. Cool,

You made me cry...by saying I made you cry!! ;)

Think that says a lot about what you mean to me!

I'll keep keeping on, right by your side, as long as you keep your side right here!!!!

Hope you have sweet dreams tonight,

Love,
 

arteangel

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Hi miss cool, tomorrow i go to the specialist for eyes, as for some time now, i have been kinda seeing these typws of things too, i sometimes lash out at creepy crawlies that are not really there, or I once had ffriends round to come find this ginger cat, that kept sitting on my stairs, ( I don't own a cat) nobody ever found it.....I have put it down to a deteriation of something will just hope the spanish doctor speaks slowly. I do know however, i will not take anything prescribed for this, at this time, I would rather be in lala land.
 

nicoise

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Hi Miss Cool

Hello again,

I'd missed your original post, so sorry this is such a late response.

Please keep posting if you are up to it - I always enjoy your posts, you tell it like it is - and help explain my mum's world to me when she can't find the words. You are my link.... ;)

Hope you are keeping well - I think of you often :)
 

miss cool

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Hi All my freands, i havent posted much latly. finding it hard to use the computer. its becoming a bit alion to me at the moment. i have also lost motivasion to do enything. also reading the posts of others is hard as i wont to say something but cannot put it all down. b%*&^£$ illness, O to find someone who understans what its like. as you all now we look the same but are fare from it. i am just at the end of my 3rd bout of utis the doc said he will help but hasent yet.we live in hope. i have been trying to do crafting and art things but nothing is turning out as it should. but as allways life gose on and on and on.

all i cane sat is i hope summer soon comes, at least i can sit in the garden. i hope everyone is ok .i am sure i will come back with my comments soom.


love miss cool. xxxxxxxxxxxx
 

shelagh

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Don't goease don't go. This is ther only place where those of us who have and are still functioning )at some level!) can connect. I stayed off for ages but I'm glad to be back. Don't beat yourself up about 'poor me' I think we are entitled to feel sorry for oursel;ves now and again.
Lots of love
Shelagh
 

miss cool

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Hi Shelagh i think you miss understood me, i dont think poor me at all.that was years ago i thought like that maybe the first 2 or 3 years enyway a long time .enyway Shelagh i wish you well.

love miss cool.xxxxxxxxx
 

lin1

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Miss Cool

I do hope your better SOON.

I remember only too well how these urine infections affected my mum, and were often difficult to clear up.
 

Grannie G

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Dear miss cool

I hope your motivation soon returns. Your presence is missed on TP. It`s such a shame groups of us are not withing visiting distance. xx
 

Helen33

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Dear Miss Cool,

I really hope that things improve when the infections clear out of your system. The one thing about living with these diseases is that one is constantly hoping for something or other. The biggest thing I had to learn as a carer to Alan was how to live with the sense of powerlessness!!! I was faced so often with the fact that I couldn't make some things better.

Sending you love and a (HUG)
 

miss cool

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Hi Lin i will never understand haw a UTI effects the brain, but effect it it dose. it seems to be hanging around at the moment .



Hi Sylvia you are so rite, it would be so good to meet you all mybe one day.



Hi Helen yes with most things you get better if only one day maybe not in my life time but one day.


love to all of you miss cool.xxxxxxxxxxxx