Hello. I’m new to talking points , I’m wondering if anyone can maybe give me a bit of advise please ,my mum has vascular dementia. We moved her into live with us in December as losing my dad in September, they were together , I moved them closer to me in the August and dad passed in September. I stayed with my mum for a few months , she went to hospital as was poorly a couple of days after dad died. She stayed at our house for a couple of days after. But then wanted to go back to the new bungalow. In December , she said she hated it and wanted to come and live at mine. So that’s what I did. Emptied the house again and moved her in to ours. I’m now told by my brother , every time he visits , she wants to move to a flat by the seaside , feels suffocated here , my brother thinks she should , but with care ... I know she will be lonely. She can’t cook, won’t be able to find any new places .. I can’t reason with her. I just don’t know how to deal with this. ...