And now for some good news! The last two nights bed completely dry even though the nappy pad was soaking. This was without getting my husband up to the toilet in the middle of the night. The pjs @Izzy recommended which zip up the back have been a great success. They are expensive at £47 a set so I just bought one to try it out but if this continues I will buy another set. John is a slim fellow so a size 38” is a good loose fit and he cannot get near the pad to move it or fidget with anything else so I’m really pleased. Next week though he goes into respite for a week and I will give them ordinary pjs in case they lose these. Thanks for all your tips. I’m a happier person for them.