my mum 80 yrs old has been taken into residential home care for five years. All decisions in her care being taken by my father and sisters. My father recently passed away and one sister moved abroad. My other sister finds my mums illness too distressing to cope with. I now feel I have the opportunity to make alernative home care arrangements. I am married with three children 11,13&16. I am 46 and always been very close to my mum and wish that her final years could be with the family. She has never shown the violent symtoms that my sisters warned me would occur with the disease. If anyone can give advice on empowerment to change or on returning their parent back home after residential care please postit.