Please move if in the wrong place.
I know we don't have a crystal ball but mum is very poorly now, having had another uti. Our General thinking is that she won't make Christmas, but I do know from reading here that she can still rally, she has before.
Anyway when she moved into the NH they asked if there was a funeral plan in place and there isn't.
I feel that I should be thinking about some sort of plan so it's not all a rush but I just don't know what I should be doing.
I know mum wants to be buried with her mum and she wants some of her favourite music. That's it. I don't know where or who would do any service, where we would go afterwards, what the service might look like, I really am at a loss, yet I know it will fall largely to me.
What should I be doing? Is it better to have some plan or just go with the flow when the time comes? I don't live nearby which makes things harder.
What were your experiences?
I know we don't have a crystal ball but mum is very poorly now, having had another uti. Our General thinking is that she won't make Christmas, but I do know from reading here that she can still rally, she has before.
Anyway when she moved into the NH they asked if there was a funeral plan in place and there isn't.
I feel that I should be thinking about some sort of plan so it's not all a rush but I just don't know what I should be doing.
I know mum wants to be buried with her mum and she wants some of her favourite music. That's it. I don't know where or who would do any service, where we would go afterwards, what the service might look like, I really am at a loss, yet I know it will fall largely to me.
What should I be doing? Is it better to have some plan or just go with the flow when the time comes? I don't live nearby which makes things harder.
What were your experiences?