I care for my husband who was diagnosed in 2018. I am 15 years younger than him. In the last 3-4 weeks, his behaviour has become very agressive; initally just shouting but today I thought he was going to lose control and kill me! He is a strong, well built man. I don't currently have professional support in place but I KNOW I need it. I desperately need some time for me - something I haven't had since February this year when he 'wandered' for the first time, and I had very little 'me' time even before then. We attend a dementia group but this needs me to attend with him so I don't get any 'me' time whilst he's there. Family members have offered the chance to leave him with them whilst I go to the shop (or get some sleep) but I am worried on two counts: A. he becomes very agitated when he doesn't know where I am and is difficult to calm down (noticed even when I just go to the loo!!); and B. I don't want to put anyone else at risk if he has one of his rages. He also has panic attacks that I need to 'talk him down' from and also has a heart condition that, more recently, has been causing him to have more regular angina attacks, which he has a GTN spray for. How do I deal with this? Can I get some professional help that won't cost an arm & a leg? and if so, How, and what can I do?