Hello,
I've got a question about phone calls & I'm just wondering if anyone else on here has encountered something similar. .
Yesterday my Mum says that she received a telephone call in the morning during which someone was shouting at her for ‘watching too much television…over 30 hours’. Mum later said that she ‘wasn’t bothered’ by the call but it was enough to stop her watching television until I got back & assured her that it was OK. It seems a VERY odd thing for anyone to ring up and start getting verbally abusive about, but my Mum insists that it happened & so I have to believe her. If it has then I’m angry about whoever did it.
Set against that though there have been occasions when Mum has imagined or misconstrued phone calls. Prior to her diagnosis Mum claimed that she had received a call from an anonymous female informing her that I had gone to a party, some sort of family get together… at which her late sister would be present. There was, obviously, no such party & I know for certain (because I checked) no phone call. More recently she received one of these ‘have you been involved in an accident in the last three years’ cold calls in the mid-afternoon. When I saw her Mum was distressed because what she understood from the call was ‘Your son’s been killed in a car crash’.
Last Sunday I went to do her shopping for her & she asked if I was going by myself. She said that there were ‘people’ in the house the week before ‘and they said they were going to go shopping’ (this never happened) and she also expressed the surprise that ‘David’ wasn’t coming with me – and I’m David! This doesn't happen every day but it's been pretty regular over the last year.
I’m working on the basis that Mum received the phone call she claims to have had and I’m setting up 1571 and caller ID on her phone just in case. I have to work on the assumption that what she saying is true, offer love and reassurance and try and shield her from distress the best that I can. Is this just a symptom of Alzheimer's/Vascular Dementia? Has anyone else had something like this?
I've got a question about phone calls & I'm just wondering if anyone else on here has encountered something similar. .
Yesterday my Mum says that she received a telephone call in the morning during which someone was shouting at her for ‘watching too much television…over 30 hours’. Mum later said that she ‘wasn’t bothered’ by the call but it was enough to stop her watching television until I got back & assured her that it was OK. It seems a VERY odd thing for anyone to ring up and start getting verbally abusive about, but my Mum insists that it happened & so I have to believe her. If it has then I’m angry about whoever did it.
Set against that though there have been occasions when Mum has imagined or misconstrued phone calls. Prior to her diagnosis Mum claimed that she had received a call from an anonymous female informing her that I had gone to a party, some sort of family get together… at which her late sister would be present. There was, obviously, no such party & I know for certain (because I checked) no phone call. More recently she received one of these ‘have you been involved in an accident in the last three years’ cold calls in the mid-afternoon. When I saw her Mum was distressed because what she understood from the call was ‘Your son’s been killed in a car crash’.
Last Sunday I went to do her shopping for her & she asked if I was going by myself. She said that there were ‘people’ in the house the week before ‘and they said they were going to go shopping’ (this never happened) and she also expressed the surprise that ‘David’ wasn’t coming with me – and I’m David! This doesn't happen every day but it's been pretty regular over the last year.
I’m working on the basis that Mum received the phone call she claims to have had and I’m setting up 1571 and caller ID on her phone just in case. I have to work on the assumption that what she saying is true, offer love and reassurance and try and shield her from distress the best that I can. Is this just a symptom of Alzheimer's/Vascular Dementia? Has anyone else had something like this?