Maggie, I hate to disagree with your daughter, but honestly, if your mum is developing new problems, it's in everyone's interests to find out what's causing them, and see what the best treatment for it is.
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totally agrees in talking to doctor about my mother becoming verbally aggressive , but we both know my mother always been very rude . when my mother does not like someone she just tell them, but never swearing at them she say I don't want to talk to you any more . ( That why I don't swear ) or just walk pass them in the street .
Now what ever this disease is doing to my mother its striping her of her social skill , so my daughter said Good at lest she coming back to how she really is , as in Exbiza is not working in the area of control my mother social skill behaviors in public any more.
But still controlling the disease not getting to the area of how she recall memory. OK my mother not hit anyone yet , so of course we are going to talk to doctor . also get my mother out of day centre , because she may one day hit someone , so I know if I leave my mother at the AZ day centre it putting my mother in a pristion of danger as she may hit someone in the future , also the staff because they not understand that my mother delusion fixation she has on a worker .
Its like the staff member said at social services day center . she said that my mother only verbally abusive . now if they no from doctor that my mother does has AZ that is verbally abusive only because she has AZ . they no its not her fault , but its because she has a diseases .
so they won't take her place away .
Now with the AZ day centre I don't know if they can handle that . if they can meet my mother challenging behavior of been verbally abusive, because she has a fixation with a worker .
So I knowing my mother I am going to get her out of they, before the situation gets out of control .
Is the day care run by the Alzheimer's Society, because if that's the case, as Hazel points out, the society supports people with all forms of dementia and would not exclude someone simply because the diagnosis wasn't AD.
yes it is run by the Alzheimer's Society But she saying my mother anger is not down to dementia or the disease. she saying that my mother just doing it on purpose she said my mother must of been always like this .
she could have a point. (I do feel sorry for the staff, my mother does seem a hand full for them )
but I have never seem seen my mother get into a fight or hit someone .
she use to hit my brother and I a lot . but I never saw her hit an adult , oh yes my mother father use to fight a lot .
but that all in the past , so am not holding that against her , she frail now .