Hi,
My dad (aged 90) was diagnosed with dementia 3 years ago but until recently has continued to live relatively independently in his apartment in an assisted living retirement community. He has had a number of falls recently leading to a week's stay in hospital which has taken its toll both mentally and physically, and the advice from the NHS active recovery nurses who saw him on discharge was that he should really be in residential care.
I moved my dad into a very nice care home nearby a few days ago, and the added difficulty is that he has to quarantine for 14 days before he can meet other residents, take part in activities etc. He was becoming lonely in his retirement community because all communal activity has been stopped since the first lockdown, and willingly went to the care home because he was looking forward to more socialisation.
Now he thinks that I have somehow tricked/imprisoned him and keeps threatening to leave, although he is currently too frail to do so by himself.
Does anyone have any advice on how to persuade him to put up with this quarantine period? When he's not happy, a day can feel like a week or even a month to him, so it's going to be a challenge.
Thanks, Justin
My dad (aged 90) was diagnosed with dementia 3 years ago but until recently has continued to live relatively independently in his apartment in an assisted living retirement community. He has had a number of falls recently leading to a week's stay in hospital which has taken its toll both mentally and physically, and the advice from the NHS active recovery nurses who saw him on discharge was that he should really be in residential care.
I moved my dad into a very nice care home nearby a few days ago, and the added difficulty is that he has to quarantine for 14 days before he can meet other residents, take part in activities etc. He was becoming lonely in his retirement community because all communal activity has been stopped since the first lockdown, and willingly went to the care home because he was looking forward to more socialisation.
Now he thinks that I have somehow tricked/imprisoned him and keeps threatening to leave, although he is currently too frail to do so by himself.
Does anyone have any advice on how to persuade him to put up with this quarantine period? When he's not happy, a day can feel like a week or even a month to him, so it's going to be a challenge.
Thanks, Justin