I am really getting concerned about my husband's immobility. He is just too stubborn at present to go into a wheelchair but it is obvious that it will be essential soon. I have a nightmare about how to cope with personal needs when this happens. I think he will cope with either he or me washing him. How does he have a shower? How does he cope with a wee and the other? What if I am not around when nature calls? I am sure there are many many people out there coping with this but I am finding it hard to come to terms with. Help please!! Beckyjan.