When the person you are caring for does something odd or upsetting do you question the motives?
For example, I asked my gran to go to the loo and take her meds as dinner was nearly ready, she was anyoed about this and when we sat down she didnt eat much and complained about the food.
Even though I am well trained at work not to look for reason behind such behaviour I found myself doing it with her.
Was she not eating in protest and being prompted to carry out routine tasks?
Was she upset about it and felt off her food?
Both I could understand.
Does at really matter, really the best thing to do is to take things as they come and not wind yourself up with unanserable questions. *sigh* It's funny how something second nature becomes all new when it's your own flesh and blood
For example, I asked my gran to go to the loo and take her meds as dinner was nearly ready, she was anyoed about this and when we sat down she didnt eat much and complained about the food.
Even though I am well trained at work not to look for reason behind such behaviour I found myself doing it with her.
Was she not eating in protest and being prompted to carry out routine tasks?
Was she upset about it and felt off her food?
Both I could understand.
Does at really matter, really the best thing to do is to take things as they come and not wind yourself up with unanserable questions. *sigh* It's funny how something second nature becomes all new when it's your own flesh and blood