Hi there
This may sound a fairly simple question, but I’m struggling to find a simple answer! My query is;
My mother has Alzheimer’s and vascular dementia. She had quite a tough time during her long marriage to my father, as he was not great with money, to say the least. Some years ago she opened a savings account that he wasn’t aware of ‘in case she ever needed it’. Dad died a couple of years ago, her mental health declined with her grief, memory problems intensified and she got her diagnosis at the beginning of the year. I do most of her shopping now and was amazed to find that she has managed to save way more than the maximum amount of savings allowed to be eligible for help with care. I am just having to arrange for some home care for her, and naturally she will have to pay for her care. She was heartbroken when I said that she would have to pay for this from her savings as she ‘wanted to leave us something, as our dad left us nothing’. Does she keep paying herself until all her savings have gone, or do the limits required for social care kick in, allowing her to receive help once these limits are met? She says she just wasted her time trying to look out for us! Thanks
This may sound a fairly simple question, but I’m struggling to find a simple answer! My query is;
My mother has Alzheimer’s and vascular dementia. She had quite a tough time during her long marriage to my father, as he was not great with money, to say the least. Some years ago she opened a savings account that he wasn’t aware of ‘in case she ever needed it’. Dad died a couple of years ago, her mental health declined with her grief, memory problems intensified and she got her diagnosis at the beginning of the year. I do most of her shopping now and was amazed to find that she has managed to save way more than the maximum amount of savings allowed to be eligible for help with care. I am just having to arrange for some home care for her, and naturally she will have to pay for her care. She was heartbroken when I said that she would have to pay for this from her savings as she ‘wanted to leave us something, as our dad left us nothing’. Does she keep paying herself until all her savings have gone, or do the limits required for social care kick in, allowing her to receive help once these limits are met? She says she just wasted her time trying to look out for us! Thanks