My mum suffers severely with Lewy Body Dementia. She is in a specialist dementia nursing home, which is paid for out of her (small) pension, savings, and proceeds of sale of her house. We have been turned down (3 times) from NHS continuing care although she is highly confused, hallucinating, often agitated, doubly incontinent, totally unable to dress or wash herself etc, has difficulty feeding herselF, and often falls.
Now she has had several falls within the nursing home, the most recent leading to a hospital admission. Luckily she was not badly injured - but she could have been.
The hospital Consultant advises she should have 24 hour one to one care, to avoid further incidents. Social serices would arrange and pay for this - if my Mum were not self funding! But as she is a self funder, it seems that we may have to pay any extra costs - which I imagine will be heavy. It does not seem right that she is clearly severely ill and needs care as recommended by a doctor - yet NHS will not provide or pay for this care. Has anyone faced a similar situation? Is there anytHing we can do?
Now she has had several falls within the nursing home, the most recent leading to a hospital admission. Luckily she was not badly injured - but she could have been.
The hospital Consultant advises she should have 24 hour one to one care, to avoid further incidents. Social serices would arrange and pay for this - if my Mum were not self funding! But as she is a self funder, it seems that we may have to pay any extra costs - which I imagine will be heavy. It does not seem right that she is clearly severely ill and needs care as recommended by a doctor - yet NHS will not provide or pay for this care. Has anyone faced a similar situation? Is there anytHing we can do?