Hi, my OH has now been admitted into care on a permanent basis after not knowing who I was, & thinking that I was trying to kill him
He is only 63.
Most people say, 'Well now you can get your life back & move on. It must be such a relief!'
But I'm finding it very difficult. I miss him far more than I thought I would, and am finding it really difficult to focus on anything. I keep flitting from one chore to another without finishing anything. Despite now having the time to do the housework etc, I just can't motivate myself some days.
The whole house looks a mess as I have half started to sort things in every room!
I thought that having more time I would have more energy and get things sorted (I'm generally an organised, give me a task & I'll do it sort of person) but I just don't!
I've been on anti depressants for quite a while, so I don't think it's that.
Is it the grieving process, even though he hasn't died? I am quite tearful at times.
He is only 63.
Most people say, 'Well now you can get your life back & move on. It must be such a relief!'
But I'm finding it very difficult. I miss him far more than I thought I would, and am finding it really difficult to focus on anything. I keep flitting from one chore to another without finishing anything. Despite now having the time to do the housework etc, I just can't motivate myself some days.
The whole house looks a mess as I have half started to sort things in every room!
I thought that having more time I would have more energy and get things sorted (I'm generally an organised, give me a task & I'll do it sort of person) but I just don't!
I've been on anti depressants for quite a while, so I don't think it's that.
Is it the grieving process, even though he hasn't died? I am quite tearful at times.