Hi Gigi
Nothing to be sorry about Gigi, you didn't come across as critical just questioning which is fine
The paranoia is about Alan believing people (including the t.v.) are talking to him or about him. It's not there all the time but I do think Deborah had a good point about the noise - I now think that noise sets it off. When I put that paranoia is here to stay I meant that it started in about March/April this year but was just like a flash and then gone. I didn't experience it again until we went on holiday and it only came on when we were in the town (which was very noisy) and occasionally by the pool but that was when it was noisy. It's been a revelation today. The permanency is that it is not like a flash anymore, it is around a lot more and in noisy circumstances. At the hospital on Friday Alan was really quite bad at thinking a couple of hospital personnel were talking about him and (I think) planning to attack him. Now I realise it is because this couple of personnel were being noisy. One of them was actually singing to the other and I did think he was rather eccentric myself.
Now I need to apologise for rattling on
Hello Hazel,
How I envy you all, going out with your partners! However hard it is, make the most of every moment -- and take lots of pics.
When I read this it really touched my heart and I felt for you. It takes a special person to be able to know the hurt and wish others well. Thank you
I am aware that one day I will be in a completely different position and looking back on these times. As you know from recent posts, it felt absolutely desperate but everyone's comments make me even more aware that things can get so much worse.
Hi Sylvia,
I've never thought of Alan being straight and at first I wondered what you meant
Then I giggled to myself and realised that some things I just take for granted!.
I am worried now about turning this reply into a small book so to everyone else I thank you and want to say I really do appreciate your comments.
Love