My mum-in-law was diagnosed with early Alzheimer’s Disease in March 2019. Her son and myself managed to get her into a really good care home just round the corner from us. She is well cared for and has put back the weight she had lost while living on her own.
Christmas 2018, while trying to cope with her anxiety and panic attacks and before she was diagnosed and put on medication, I was off sick for 4 months with laryngitis which my GP told me was caused by stress while trying to look after my mum-in-law. She still suffers panic attacks and always feels shaky inside. She continually needs reassurance but it doesn’t help her.
I am so terrified of being ill again that I don’t want anything to do with her. I would be happy if I never saw her again, but my husband insists on having her at our house every Sunday. When she starts panicking, I disappear upstairs with some excuse.
What I would really like to know is how to deal with her panic attacks and feeling shaky.
Christmas 2018, while trying to cope with her anxiety and panic attacks and before she was diagnosed and put on medication, I was off sick for 4 months with laryngitis which my GP told me was caused by stress while trying to look after my mum-in-law. She still suffers panic attacks and always feels shaky inside. She continually needs reassurance but it doesn’t help her.
I am so terrified of being ill again that I don’t want anything to do with her. I would be happy if I never saw her again, but my husband insists on having her at our house every Sunday. When she starts panicking, I disappear upstairs with some excuse.
What I would really like to know is how to deal with her panic attacks and feeling shaky.