Sadly, so very sadly, there are no "best decisions" with dementia - only least worst.
When Mummy went into a care home I was constantly crying. We had been through so much as a family but this one thing was bigger than us.
She did settle, very well. It takes time, for both you and your loved one to adjust. Grief can be a strange thing and it rears its head at different times. Another resident was very kind to me one day, when Mummy had been in hospital and it moved me to tears. This whole thing is such a god awful emotional roller coaster.
I hope your OH settles and that you are able to find some peace.
When Mummy went into a care home I was constantly crying. We had been through so much as a family but this one thing was bigger than us.
She did settle, very well. It takes time, for both you and your loved one to adjust. Grief can be a strange thing and it rears its head at different times. Another resident was very kind to me one day, when Mummy had been in hospital and it moved me to tears. This whole thing is such a god awful emotional roller coaster.
I hope your OH settles and that you are able to find some peace.