Hi, I'm new and I'm glad to have found this forum. My dad has suffered with ' short term memory problems' ( repeating himself- thinking events from 5 years ago were yesterday, forgetting the day's events etc- but no-one has ever diagnosed him with anything... his mum had AD) for quite a few years and 2.5 years ago came to live with us as he wasn't really able to cope alone anymore. He's been quite happy, sleeps a lot, quite easy going and polite.
Wednesday morning we found him fallen and bleeding from the forehead- with his coat on at 7am. I asked him why he had his coat on and he said he was going home ( in his car... due to diabetes he hasn't driven for 15 years).[ Coat suggests he had had this idea before falling- but we can't be sure] On return from dr's, he didn't get out of the car, after persuasion said ' Oh am I staying with you?'
Later that night he asked how long he would be staying in ' this hospital'. Just the night before he'd said how well it was working out together, and although he thought is was only 6 months he'd lived with us he was quite clear that he lived here...
What I'm most worried about is 1- he'll try to ' go home' and he'll get lost
2- he will become more and more fustrated/ upset that he isn't ' at home'.
But back to heading... can someone really change that much overnight? He did have indications before ( asking me where I was etc) but this seems a really big change
Wednesday morning we found him fallen and bleeding from the forehead- with his coat on at 7am. I asked him why he had his coat on and he said he was going home ( in his car... due to diabetes he hasn't driven for 15 years).[ Coat suggests he had had this idea before falling- but we can't be sure] On return from dr's, he didn't get out of the car, after persuasion said ' Oh am I staying with you?'
Later that night he asked how long he would be staying in ' this hospital'. Just the night before he'd said how well it was working out together, and although he thought is was only 6 months he'd lived with us he was quite clear that he lived here...
What I'm most worried about is 1- he'll try to ' go home' and he'll get lost
2- he will become more and more fustrated/ upset that he isn't ' at home'.
But back to heading... can someone really change that much overnight? He did have indications before ( asking me where I was etc) but this seems a really big change