Aunt seems to have settled to some degree in her residential home even though she has her moments and took some friends on a tour of the locked garden gates the other day!
The problems with communication continue to cloud other issues - she is trying to talk more - probably because of all the company and opportunities - but we are understanding less at each visit (apart from the raised eyebrows that appear to indicate a "you're not much help" type of response).
My question is this: Should we risk upsetting her routine by taking her outside the grounds for a walk or perhaps even out to lunch though I know this would present another set of difficulties? One of her fiercest concerns when the word "home" was raised some months ago was that she didn't want to be shut away and once again the guilt word is back in my ramblings as I feel this is just what has happened.
We are concerned that it will put back the settling in process and that is the last thing we want to do. It is still early days and only just over a week since she rang the police in the early hours of the morning presumably to summon help!
Any comments and suggestions welcome.
Kriss
The problems with communication continue to cloud other issues - she is trying to talk more - probably because of all the company and opportunities - but we are understanding less at each visit (apart from the raised eyebrows that appear to indicate a "you're not much help" type of response).
My question is this: Should we risk upsetting her routine by taking her outside the grounds for a walk or perhaps even out to lunch though I know this would present another set of difficulties? One of her fiercest concerns when the word "home" was raised some months ago was that she didn't want to be shut away and once again the guilt word is back in my ramblings as I feel this is just what has happened.
We are concerned that it will put back the settling in process and that is the last thing we want to do. It is still early days and only just over a week since she rang the police in the early hours of the morning presumably to summon help!
Any comments and suggestions welcome.
Kriss