My husband was out of the house for 5 hours today, came back smelling like a distillery, fell asleep, and wonders why I am upset. He even thought I was our daughter tonight, not his wife of 43 years. We have a meeting at the memory clinic tomorrow. How much more out of control dies a 71 year old with a heart condition whose had TIAs and who is drinking on top of of his meds which include Sertraline? He has frontotemporal dementia and although I know the illness is doing this to him, I can't take the daily torture much longer!