I took mother for an x-ray on Friday, she has/had been complaining about her back for months now, I feel so guilty, if only I had asked for an x-ray earlier, it has been found that she has Osteoporosis, and the bones at the foot of the spine fractured slightly and fused. I have asked for a reassessment from the SS but if I call back and make a fuss, will they get things done quicker? Will she be able to stay in her home? Can I get a wheelchair thro' the SS? Can I get a ramp from SS? I thought I was in control but it seems I'm not. OH also seems to be getting worse with his Parkinson's and his own mind, and he has, in the last couple of months become more "controlling", I gave up work to be his full time carer, but I seem to be drowning.