Happy New Year
I just wondered if anyone could recommend any online planners or accounts with regards to when my sibling and myself visit Mum who has Vascular Dementia. Sadly my sibling and myself do not speak directly and have to communicate online. We used to use e-mails which were sent to my brother and he would pass messages on between us but after several years, my brother no longer wishes to continue to do this so we are currently using google calendar to communicate between ourselves.
We do not use direct e-mail our self as e-mails have over the years have become too aggressive and sadly the messages on the planner are becoming that way as well when it is only supposed to be used for when we visit Mum between us as well as providing updates relating to Mum. However, as I say the messages are now becoming quite abusive again and for years dealing with the bullying messages are impacting on my wellbeing and I would rather not have any communication with her at all but sadly I have to with regards to having updates on Mum
Are there any communicate tools for carers that you are aware of at all that may assist in this situation, ideally I would like to be able to restrict or monitor the incoming messages.
With thanks very much I appreciate any advice on this
I just wondered if anyone could recommend any online planners or accounts with regards to when my sibling and myself visit Mum who has Vascular Dementia. Sadly my sibling and myself do not speak directly and have to communicate online. We used to use e-mails which were sent to my brother and he would pass messages on between us but after several years, my brother no longer wishes to continue to do this so we are currently using google calendar to communicate between ourselves.
We do not use direct e-mail our self as e-mails have over the years have become too aggressive and sadly the messages on the planner are becoming that way as well when it is only supposed to be used for when we visit Mum between us as well as providing updates relating to Mum. However, as I say the messages are now becoming quite abusive again and for years dealing with the bullying messages are impacting on my wellbeing and I would rather not have any communication with her at all but sadly I have to with regards to having updates on Mum
Are there any communicate tools for carers that you are aware of at all that may assist in this situation, ideally I would like to be able to restrict or monitor the incoming messages.
With thanks very much I appreciate any advice on this