Hello All
I have been speaking to this friend on the phone during the pandemic. Had not seen him since about 2017/18. He had stopped responding to phone messages. When we reconnected in 2020 I realised just how much his memory, communication and his life has changed and shrunk. I believe he knows who I am; even though he forgets my name during conversations. His sister looks after his finances and has visited him a few times during the pandemic. He lives on 15th floor of a block of flats and does his food shopping in the local Costbutter, 5 minutes away. Apart from occasionally attending a local AA meeting, that is more or less all the contact he has. His sister presumably decides what should or should not be done to help him. Not my place to interfere. So I have just tried to stay in contact via phone, without being too intrusive. Difficult. So I thought I would see if people have similar experiences. Thanks. LCM55
I have been speaking to this friend on the phone during the pandemic. Had not seen him since about 2017/18. He had stopped responding to phone messages. When we reconnected in 2020 I realised just how much his memory, communication and his life has changed and shrunk. I believe he knows who I am; even though he forgets my name during conversations. His sister looks after his finances and has visited him a few times during the pandemic. He lives on 15th floor of a block of flats and does his food shopping in the local Costbutter, 5 minutes away. Apart from occasionally attending a local AA meeting, that is more or less all the contact he has. His sister presumably decides what should or should not be done to help him. Not my place to interfere. So I have just tried to stay in contact via phone, without being too intrusive. Difficult. So I thought I would see if people have similar experiences. Thanks. LCM55