tablets seem to be working he is much calmer now, consultant coming to our home on Monday, between 11 and 2 . don't think I could cope with this for 2 years rare or not.Yes, I'm sorry to read your post too, Mabbs.
My mum hit me a few times (she used to attack me with her walking stick), and the only hopeful thing I can say is that this behaviour was rare, it never became a huge problem and it did stop after a couple of years.
The memory service have said they cant look after Phil anymore, and we will be transferred to the mental health team. Had a raging headache for 2 days, stress I guess, roll on Monday, and fingers crossed for a quiet weekend.