Struggling to cope for weeks phil has had a day where he sits and glares says NO to everything and swearing at me. Now its escalating to every other day, and sometimes every day, we had a lovely morning at the dementia cafe, he ate his lunch we walked the dog, came back had a drink, and he dozed off, when he woke up, he was glaring and then pacing about, whats wrong, got a p**s off, and he has been the same since, pushed his dinner away, so wont eat, wont have a drink, now he has taken himself upstairs, and is lying on the bed, if I go up he will tell me o p**s off again, or worse. I am going to see consultant tomorrow ref MRI results, my son is coming with us, I have asked for time alone with consultant ( and my son). For years he used to be like this, I would do or say something, and he would go into a sulk, and not speak for days, I thought that was over years ago, I dont know if I can take it all over again. I spend so much time in tears, and walking on eggshells, I just dont know what to do, I dont have a life anymore.