I feel a bit awkward posting this for obvious reasons...has anyone else found this problem ? A few years ago my mother wouldnt even have mentioned the word. now she has got in into her head that different people in the home are having affairs, often patient/carer..and gives unpleasantly graphic descriptions of what they do together. To make matters worse she does, as usual, air these views loudly...and not only is it exceedingly embarrasing anyway but my sons do not know where to look!! I have tried saying I dont believe her, changing the subject, ignoring her, or just saying to her that these are not the right matters for public discussion but it seems to make her worse.