1. MollyD

    MollyD Registered User

    Mar 27, 2016
    1,696
    Ireland
    Warm tight hugs from me too, Aisling. Xxx
     
  2. jorgieporgie

    jorgieporgie Registered User

    Mar 2, 2016
    1,985
    YORKSHIRE
    Bless you both sending a big cuddle xxx
     
  3. Aisling

    Aisling Registered User

    Dec 5, 2015
    1,807
    Ireland

    Am in hospital with t every day. No great change. More tests, drips and bits of food. All experts have seen him. Great staff. Am sleep walking at this stage .

    never in my wildest dreams did I think a NH couldn't cope. We live and learn....

    Aisling xx
     
  4. LadyA

    LadyA Registered User

    Oct 19, 2009
    13,478
    Ireland
    It does happen occasionally Aisling, unfortunately. There are others on TP whose loved ones couldn't couldn't be cared for in a nursing home. And often, like for I think it's kevinl's wife) it turns out well. I hope T can be helped. If what appears to be quite a sudden, severe deterioration in his condition (is that accurate?) is not just the natural progression of his Alzheimer's disease, then I do hope the hospital can get to the root of it quickly. xx

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  5. HillyBilly

    HillyBilly Registered User

    Dec 21, 2015
    1,948
    Ireland
    You must be exhausted Aisling. Do try to look after yourself a bit x
     
  6. Aisling

    Aisling Registered User

    Dec 5, 2015
    1,807
    Ireland

    Yes, a sudden deterioration. Hospital thinks certain drugs have caused it.

    Aisling xx
     
  7. Jinx

    Jinx Registered User

    Mar 13, 2014
    2,333
    Pontypool
    So sorry you have all this to deal with, Aisling. Hope there is something the hospital can do. xx


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  8. Morty

    Morty Registered User

    Dec 13, 2016
    94
    Southeast Ireland
    Hugs,hope you get some rest
     
  9. MollyD

    MollyD Registered User

    Mar 27, 2016
    1,696
    Ireland
    Thinking of you and T, Aisling. Xxxx
     
  10. Mammamu

    Mammamu Registered User

    Jan 10, 2017
    158
    Bucks
    #610 Mammamu, Feb 17, 2017
    Last edited: Feb 17, 2017
    Sorry [emoji52] you are having a hard time!
    It's hard when "friends" disappears.....
    Me too have had that experience, I get it I'm a boring old ..... all I talk about is my parents in law, but WHAT else can I talk about?
    For the past few months it has been my life. I can't let my hair down, have some fun & relax because I have no idea what's going to happen.....
    I have NEVER treated anyone the way I have been treated. But like you, I now keep myself to myself, better off in my on company in the woods with the trees & squirrels.....
    You are doing a grand job and clearly are so committed to find the best possible place. I sincerely hope you find it very soon!
    To be honest I had given up all hope and then the week I said no I can't do it, everything falls in to place....
    Sending you hugs [emoji847] and do make sure to look after you!

    Mammamu [emoji202]


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  11. jorgieporgie

    jorgieporgie Registered User

    Mar 2, 2016
    1,985
    YORKSHIRE
    Hope your both Ok thinking of you xxx
     
  12. MollyD

    MollyD Registered User

    Mar 27, 2016
    1,696
    Ireland
    Thinking of you, Aisling. Wishing you strength and support. X
     
  13. Alicenutter

    Alicenutter Registered User

    Aug 29, 2015
    560
    Massachusetts USA
    I've been away from TP for a while, but I'm praying for you and Tim like crazy right now, Aisling. I'm so sorry you have both been having such a terrible time. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
     
  14. Spamar

    Spamar Registered User

    Oct 5, 2013
    6,917
    Suffolk
    Hope things are improving, Aisling.
     
  15. MollyD

    MollyD Registered User

    Mar 27, 2016
    1,696
    Ireland
    Wam hugs to you and T, Aisling. X
     
  16. Aisling

    Aisling Registered User

    Dec 5, 2015
    1,807
    Ireland
    My lovely husband died in my arms on Sunday night 26thFeb just after midnght. His Funeral Mass was last Wednesday 1st March, May he Rest in Peace.

    Aisling
     
  17. CeliaW

    CeliaW Registered User

    Jan 29, 2009
    5,654
    Hampshire
    Oh Aisling, I am so sorry. Wishing you strength for the difficult times ahead, please take care of yourself. Hugs xx

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  18. jaymor

    jaymor Volunteer Moderator

    Jul 14, 2006
    12,406
    Female
    England
    Oh Aisling, I am so sorry to hear your sad news. You were with him to the end, may that bring you some comfort.
     
  19. jugglingmum

    jugglingmum Registered User

    Jan 5, 2014
    5,027
    Female
    Chester
    So sorry to hear this, you did everything you could for him xx

    Hope your strength looking after T can help you through xx
     
  20. Shedrech

    Shedrech Volunteer Moderator

    Dec 15, 2012
    7,738
    Yorkshire
    thank you for letting us know Aisling
    so fitting that you were holding him as you have been by his side holding his hand all through
    sending sympathy and wishing you peace
     

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