My husband has recently been assessed as requiring nursing care which his CH doesn't provide. The CHC gave me a list of homes that had beds available. I have now had my husband assessed by 3 of them who have come back and said they cannot meet his needs and that he would not fit in with their other residents. This has left me an emotional wreck as my husband is neither aggressive nor violent but during 'sundowning' does have challenging behaviour. The CH have been given one to one for OH until a NH is found for him. As it's a BH there is no-one in the CHC office that I can talk to so I suppose everything will have to stay in abeyance until Tuesday.
I thought dementia NH were there to care for dementia residents with challenging behaviour, I didn't realise they could cherry pick their residents, I suppose its so they can get good reviews.
As he is now in the care of CHC I do not have a social worker that I can talk to.
The staff at his CH cannot believe that 3 homes have turned him down
I'm waiting to hear from a 4th NH who assessed him last evening but their are others on the list ahead of him for the room. It will all depend on whether the manager deems us as being more in need of the room than the others.
I just feel a total wreck
I thought dementia NH were there to care for dementia residents with challenging behaviour, I didn't realise they could cherry pick their residents, I suppose its so they can get good reviews.
As he is now in the care of CHC I do not have a social worker that I can talk to.
The staff at his CH cannot believe that 3 homes have turned him down
I'm waiting to hear from a 4th NH who assessed him last evening but their are others on the list ahead of him for the room. It will all depend on whether the manager deems us as being more in need of the room than the others.
I just feel a total wreck