Hello
My mum has Late-onset Dementure and is nearly 89, she was diagnosed 4 years ago but it took 2 years to diagnose as kept on putting it down to a thyroid problem
Mum lived with my dad who was 90 at the time and was slowly getting worse and her agitation was really bad and of course, my Dad got the brunt of it all the time, my dad was not well himself at the time and we so desperately tried to get Meds to calm mum down but was told that they didn't like to issue sedatives as Mum would have been a risk of falls and because she lives with my frail Dad this was not going to be an option so because of this we decided to put mum into care. After 5 months in a care home, the care home decided they wanted Mum out as she had a problem with another resident whom she thought was my dad. Mum was on anti-depressants and Lorazepam at the time of the problems. After weeks of looking for a good Nursing Home with a good cqc report we managed to find one that was 30 miles away. My dad died last August and I feel I am now in a position to bring Mum home to finish her final time with her family as it is a struggle with Covid getting to see her more regularly. I have mentioned this to the Social worker and they are going to visit her next week to see how her aggression is with other people, but I just wondered if anybody had been through a similar experience and what to expect
Thank you
My mum has Late-onset Dementure and is nearly 89, she was diagnosed 4 years ago but it took 2 years to diagnose as kept on putting it down to a thyroid problem
Mum lived with my dad who was 90 at the time and was slowly getting worse and her agitation was really bad and of course, my Dad got the brunt of it all the time, my dad was not well himself at the time and we so desperately tried to get Meds to calm mum down but was told that they didn't like to issue sedatives as Mum would have been a risk of falls and because she lives with my frail Dad this was not going to be an option so because of this we decided to put mum into care. After 5 months in a care home, the care home decided they wanted Mum out as she had a problem with another resident whom she thought was my dad. Mum was on anti-depressants and Lorazepam at the time of the problems. After weeks of looking for a good Nursing Home with a good cqc report we managed to find one that was 30 miles away. My dad died last August and I feel I am now in a position to bring Mum home to finish her final time with her family as it is a struggle with Covid getting to see her more regularly. I have mentioned this to the Social worker and they are going to visit her next week to see how her aggression is with other people, but I just wondered if anybody had been through a similar experience and what to expect
Thank you