I have only just registered and I am not even sure if I should have !! My mum (74) has recently been diagnosed with multi dementia - aspects of all ? I have 4 sisters who all seem to be trying to help BUT as far as I am concerned are not doing enough. My mum has lived with me since they all got married - approx 10 years ago. Mum accuses me of trying to drug her / constantly wants to "go home" / wants to go to bed at 6pm - I am probably not doing the right thing but I sleep with her because she is scared - this results in me going to bed at 6pm and trying to sneak out to watch TV when she has dropped off. I don't think I have accepted the fact that she has dementia - and just want my old mum back telling me she loves me.