I was so worried tonight. I had been out for a couple or hours. I can usually rely on my husband still being exactly where he was when I left him for up to three or four hours at a time. But tonight he had got up and found a telephone and was trying to phone one of the shopping channels to buy me some jewellry for hundreds of pounds! I know he just wants to be nice to me and get me a surprise Christmas gift, but I can't seem to make him understand how expensive and inappropriate his actions were. He was convinced he was watching BBC1! He has already got me a gift - we bought it together, but he does not remember getting it - or where he has put it! Why does him trying to show he loves me hurt so much?