I don't know how to use these "threads", just trying.
Mum went into a care home on Friday, no choice as she has been roaming at night back at home, but no sign of that in the care home, so I start to wonder if it was just temporary, and she could perhaps go home again - any thoughts?
Pychiatrist says not, so she is in the best care home we could find and I don't like it. I DID like it when we looked at it, but it doesn't seem to provide what it said it would. Food, said a choice of menus, no choice, activities, lots, but none so far. Inmates seem to just sit around the telly, none of them can hear it, there is no conversation between them, they just sit watching the telly. That is no use for my mum. What do I do? She wants conversation, activities, stimulation, alll the other residents seem to be be out of it entirely. I took her for a walk out on Sunday to a local park, thought she would love it, but she just came out of duty almost, and didn't seem to enjoy it, found it a bit of a chore. And six weeks ago she was living on her own and happy. Now she is so sad. What can I do?
Margaret
Mum went into a care home on Friday, no choice as she has been roaming at night back at home, but no sign of that in the care home, so I start to wonder if it was just temporary, and she could perhaps go home again - any thoughts?
Pychiatrist says not, so she is in the best care home we could find and I don't like it. I DID like it when we looked at it, but it doesn't seem to provide what it said it would. Food, said a choice of menus, no choice, activities, lots, but none so far. Inmates seem to just sit around the telly, none of them can hear it, there is no conversation between them, they just sit watching the telly. That is no use for my mum. What do I do? She wants conversation, activities, stimulation, alll the other residents seem to be be out of it entirely. I took her for a walk out on Sunday to a local park, thought she would love it, but she just came out of duty almost, and didn't seem to enjoy it, found it a bit of a chore. And six weeks ago she was living on her own and happy. Now she is so sad. What can I do?
Margaret