Morning all,
The situation with my Mum has deteriorated very quickly over the past few weeks. Initially, we took the decision to place Mum into residential care, as her vascular dementia had progressed and she was starting to wander at night. She has lived on her own for the last 13 years, so has always been a very independent lady and is physically very fit at 79. Over the past 9 months she has had carers visit 3 and then 4 times a day to help with meals and make sure Mum was dressed/washed etc. Her hygiene over the past month had really deteriorated and with other incident happening with disturbing neighbours, hallucinating and wandering outside with her suitcase, I decided with support from her GP & social worker, that residential care was the best thing for her.
I found a really lovely home for her and her first week, she seemed to settle and enjoy the company. However since Thursday last week Mum has become violent to the carers at the home, to the extent that she was sectioned under section 2 yesterday. It has been a complete whirlwind and I have no idea what to do next or how I can support her.
I know Mum will be so scared and confused. She is fully aware that she is forgetting, which makes this all the more heart breaking.
I live 300 miles away and my brother on the other side of the world (we have an LPA for both), so feel very removed from it all. I want to make sure that I am involved in the decision making process of what happens next and obviously would like to visit Mum as soon as I can.
Can anyone give advice as to what happens next? I know they can hold my Mum for up to 28 days whilst they assess her and obviously find the right medication for her, but other than that I am a little lost on the process of it all.
Any advice, as always would be greatly appreciated.
The situation with my Mum has deteriorated very quickly over the past few weeks. Initially, we took the decision to place Mum into residential care, as her vascular dementia had progressed and she was starting to wander at night. She has lived on her own for the last 13 years, so has always been a very independent lady and is physically very fit at 79. Over the past 9 months she has had carers visit 3 and then 4 times a day to help with meals and make sure Mum was dressed/washed etc. Her hygiene over the past month had really deteriorated and with other incident happening with disturbing neighbours, hallucinating and wandering outside with her suitcase, I decided with support from her GP & social worker, that residential care was the best thing for her.
I found a really lovely home for her and her first week, she seemed to settle and enjoy the company. However since Thursday last week Mum has become violent to the carers at the home, to the extent that she was sectioned under section 2 yesterday. It has been a complete whirlwind and I have no idea what to do next or how I can support her.
I know Mum will be so scared and confused. She is fully aware that she is forgetting, which makes this all the more heart breaking.
I live 300 miles away and my brother on the other side of the world (we have an LPA for both), so feel very removed from it all. I want to make sure that I am involved in the decision making process of what happens next and obviously would like to visit Mum as soon as I can.
Can anyone give advice as to what happens next? I know they can hold my Mum for up to 28 days whilst they assess her and obviously find the right medication for her, but other than that I am a little lost on the process of it all.
Any advice, as always would be greatly appreciated.